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The Morning My Follower Count Made Me Question What’s Real

2 min readMar 8, 2025

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When hitting 7000 followers on Linkedin, it made me realize what actually matters…

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We often chase digital metrics and material goals, mistaking them for real success. This morning, as I watched my follower count hit 7,000, I found myself reflecting on what’s genuinely real in life versus what’s simply nice to have.

The Illusion of Digital Success

we’re conditioned to chase certain markers of success:

  • Six-figure follower counts
  • The temporary high in social media engagement
  • Bank accounts with multiple zeros
  • Vast material possessions

While these achievements might feel good momentarily, they’re often just artificial measures of success that don’t contribute to our real human experience.

What’s Actually Real

The truly real experiences in life are often the simplest:

  • The mindful enjoyment of your morning beverage, when you’re not rushing to meet deadlines
  • The emotional connection of a genuine embrace
  • The gift of physical health and mental clarity
  • Natural experiences like:

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Manoj Surya
Manoj Surya

Written by Manoj Surya

I write about everything I learnt to become better at life , endurance, health, books, reading and building products